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Declaration of Interdependence from [tumblr.com profile] queerspacepunk (aka [archiveofourown.org profile] emmett)

A tiny snippet from a lovely thread

i want to be asked to come over and help put my friend's kids to bed as casually as they might text their spouse and ask them to pick up milk on the way home

i want to stop and pick up milk for another friend because i know their spouse hates the grocery store

i want to buy fruit that i dont like because it's on special and i know people who do

i want to pass lemons over the fence and to take my neighbours bins out when the forget

i want group chats instead of rideshare apps, calls in the middle of the night because someone's at the hospital, lonely or hungry or both

i want to do the dishes in other people's houses, extra servings wrapped in tinfoil and tea towels so it's still warm when you drop it off, a basket of other people's mending by my couch

i want to be surrounded by reminders that 'imposing' on each other is what we were born to do

https://queerspacepunk.tumblr.com/search/interdependence


Today I learned there are graphic resources—icons and banners—on the Archive of Our Own!

https://archiveofourown.org/tags/Banners%20*a*%20Icons/works

(Sadly AO3’s metatags don’t create RSS feeds, so I can’t add one here.)


New DW community for people who archive information from the web: [community profile] datahoarders

[personal profile] timeasmymeasure provides resources for would-be archivists without tech skills: https://datahoarders.dreamwidth.org/3299.html

Of particular interest to me:

AO3 Downloader: a life-saver for any person who has thought, "God, I wish I could download all of my bookmarks, but that would take sooo long to do individually." Another Github download which is saved by its thorough instructions!

umadoshi: (pork belly (chicachellers))
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Reading: Still working my way through The Spear Cuts Through Water--somewhere past the halfway point now.

Watching: I finished my Guardian rewatch!

[personal profile] scruloose and I finished season 1 of Kingdom and did indeed opt to hold off on season 2 until after we finish season 2 of The Last of Us. (Is Kingdom complete at two seasons? Anyone know offhand? Fear of spoilers makes me not want to search up the info.) We also saw the season premiere of TLoU and the first episode of The Pitt.

Playing: Because the evil 368chickens game keeps track and springs the number on you when you beat it, I know that when I finally rescued 368 chickens a few days ago it was after 454 tries. And for reasons that are not clear to me, the victory screen (at least in the browser version) also informs you that you can't play anymore and is all that shows if you reload. (There are ways around it, of course--incognito tabs, simply using a different browser, whatever--but it just seems weird to me. I have thus far avoided going back to it, but that just means returning to my default couple of games that I play endlessly when my brain is completely incapable of focus but needs to be doing something. >.<)

Adulting: Mid-week, [personal profile] scruloose and I took the day off for my birthday and both dropped off our tax documents with our tax guy (bless our tax guy) and voted in the federal election at the Elections Canada office. I'm glad we got the voting taken care of so early--sounds like lineups for advance polls have been unusually lengthy this weekend (and here's hoping that's a good sign for the outcome!).
under the cut: fruit and meat consumption (separately) )

Weekly proof of life: other stuff

Apr. 13th, 2025 04:16 pm
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Cooking/Baking: Biweekly banana bread-making yesterday, with a few dollops of applesauce to make up for being a banana short of the eight we usually use. I've also been experimenting with a bit of xanthan gum, which Kas and Ginny suggested a little while back when we mentioned how low the loaves are. The height is, to be fair, largely due to how little flour there actually is--about three and a half cups of oat flour for four loaves--but I think the xanthan gum is helping them rise a bit more.

And today there's a batch of black beans (starting from a pound or so of dried, soaked overnight) on the stove, following the ingredient suggestions [personal profile] genarti posted for me on Mastodon a while back.

When placing a grocery order yesterday, we took a stab at meal planning for the week for the first time in...um...a while. Beans and rice tonight (and then beans in lunches, probably), and hopefully Chinese BBQ in a couple of days (which is dinner for two nights), and I think we settled on doing a pork shoulder at some point. Maybe we'll manage to dig through the freezer usefully and cook some things from it over the upcoming four-day weekend.

Meat-puppetry (and Cat Herding): I opted to sign up for the provincial health portal to access my records, and my recent A1C result is 5.9--the absolute highest it can be without crossing into (according to Canada) the ~prediabetic~ range, and up from the 5.8 I had in December. I was afraid it would be higher, so this is still a relief, but I need to renew my efforts at increasing how much moving around I do. Hopefully the end of winter will help a bit.

Yesterday the blues were scrapping and came tearing around the corner and under my feet as I was mid-step, and suddenly I was on the extremely hard kitchen floor (and scared that I'd actually stepped on Yona, but it seems like I didn't; both blues seem entirely unhurt). I'm mostly unscathed, thankfully--I took most of the brunt on my shin, not a knee, and didn't bash my head on the edge of the counter, so I'm counting myself very lucky. It's just a bit sore today.

The blues were both understandably spooked--poor Sinha's tail went all bottle-brush for a bit!--but Jinksy immediately hopped out of the box he'd been in and ran over to inspect me and make sure I was okay. There were many headbumps and much sniffing and some little licks. He's such a ridiculously good cat. (He doesn't really like being around Sinha--understandably, given what a terror baby!Sinha was to him and how much Sinha pesters him to this day--but if our high-strung little dragon is freaked out or distressed, most times Jinksy will still run over and check him out and be comforting.)

Planning: We both booked my birthday off, more just to not have to work on it than to do anything terribly exciting. But we reserved a car so we can do some erranding ranging from (hopefully) advance voting and dropping off our taxes info to picking up the aforementioned Chinese BBQ and cake. (Theoretically, a couple slices of different flavors. We'll see what the bakery I have in mind has on offer.)
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Fangirling: Last week was Feed's fifteenth anniversary (!), which reminded me that I keep vaguely meaning to post what there is of my unfinished post-Feed(-but-spoilery-for-Deadline) AU.

Reading: Let's see! I finished Ann Aguirre's Strange Love and enjoyed it, although I don't feel a burning need to seek out the book(s) that follow it. I followed that with KJ Charles' Spectred Isle, and I'll probably keep an eye out for its sequel; Charles' books are always a good time.

Now I'm (I think) maybe a sixth of the way into The Spear Cuts Through Water (Simon Jimenez), and I think I'm basically following what's going on. (?) It's beautifully written and layered in ways that I'm not finding the easiest to follow so far.

Watching: Only four episodes left of my Guardian rewatch! So close to finished!

[personal profile] scruloose and I are three or four episodes into Kingdom now; I'm not sure if we're going to keep going once we finish season 1 and watch it concurrently with The Last of Us or put it on hold and come back for season 2 after season 2 of TLoU. So many zombies.

(Between The Last of Us and all the talk I've been seeing about The Pitt, I might opt to reactivate our Crave membership for a month or two. [If "reactivate" is the right word when it's "we got a six-month trial for it at some point, so we have an account already, but I'm not sure we ever actually watched anything on it." I sifted through their catalogue a few days ago, and there are quite a few things that are on my to-watch list, but the overall size of the collection seems way smaller than Netflix Canada's, which is unfortunate.)

And in the name of trying something lighter with shorter episodes, we also watched ep. 1 of Superstore, which completely failed to grab me. But it's the pilot episode of a sitcom, and I haven't actually heard much about the show, so I have no idea how representative it is. (Sometimes I think about season 1 of Parks and Recreation and how there would have been no chance in hell that I'd keep watching after even its first episode if I hadn't heard repeatedly that it wasn't representative. And even then, the only reason I didn't skip ahead to season 2--and I am not exactly prone to skipping things--was that season 1 was so mercifully shot.)

Playing: I saw 368 Chickens mentioned repeatedly on Bluesky the other day, so I tried it, and have since lost...I don't know how much time to it, because calculating the amount of time I lose to idle games when my brain needs to be doing something but isn't actually up to anything is a horrifying prospect. But it's a change of pace from my usual online Boggle game or the Tents and Trees (or is it the other way around?) app, even if I'm not very good at it. I think my best so far is only just below 200.

Things I've been reading 2

Apr. 12th, 2025 08:06 pm
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I am apparently incapable of doing these posts at month's end, but here's a round-up of things I've read since my last books read post.

Recently Finished:
Cinema Love, Jiaming Tang. 1980s China and 2020s NYC (specifically pandemic times), with multiple POVs. The book centers around gay men from rural China and the women who loved and hated and protected them. Not an easy read, but compelling. This one also hit weirdly because I live near one of the neighborhoods featured in the book. The pandemic times scenes were spot-on, but it's also a little disorienting to read about a specific time and place you know pretty intimately but from the perspective of someone else who also clearly knows the time and place pretty intimately!

Fifty Beasts to Break Your Heart and Other Stories, Gennarose Nethercott. Solidly mid short story collection. I really liked "The Thread Boy" and "Drowning Lessons," but most of the others stories left me either feeling meh or completely baffled about what I was supposed to get from them. At least two just stopped in a way that I think was supposed to be ~edgy or ~shocking, but came across as unfinished thoughts.

Catfish Rolling, Clara Kumagai. First five-star read of the year. Loved the magical realism, loved the timey-wimey-ness, loved the science fiction elements and the family dynamics and the late teens/early twenties protagonists. Highly recommend this one, and definitely going to keep an eye out for more from Kumagai.

What You Are Looking For Is In the Library, Michiko Aoyama (translated by Alison Watts). I wanted to like this book. It does some fun magic-of-books-and-libraries things, and I liked how each of the vignettes connected to each other. But the prominent fatphobia from all of the POV characters (the Librarian is described as grotesquely overweight) was extremely uncomfortable and a major turnoff.

In Memoriam, Alice Winn. I absolutely consumed all 380 pages of this book in two days. It would have been one day except I had prior engagements already scheduled that I could not skip. My second five-star read of the year. I could not put it down. I'm still thinking about it a full month later. It immediately went on the to-buy list.

On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century, Timothy Snyder. All I can really say about this is oof.

The Clothing of Books, Jhumpa Lahiri. A meditation/essay on book covers and how they are and aren't a reflection of the author's vision of their book. I liked the insight into the lack of control traditionally published authors have over the cover designs of their books and how that can be distancing for the author (or for Lahiri, at least; I think she'd be the first to admit that her feelings on this aren't universal).

Daughter of the Moon Goddess, Sue Lynn Tan. This was a fun adventure story after some much heavier reads. This was my beach vacation read, and I had a good time. I think the love triangle would be more interesting if it were queer, but it's the B- or C-plot, so whatever. Looking forward to the sequel once my library hold comes in.

Godzilla and Godzilla Raids Again, Shigeru Kayama (translated by Jeffrey Angles). The novelizations of the first two movies, by the screenwriter! They mostly follow the films, but there are a few major changes, especially in the first (like shifting characters' ages to minimize the romantic subplot). I appreciated the translator's historical context notes at the end. I can't imagine a Hollywood blockbuster going from concept to wide release in just six months!

Current Reads:
The Siege of Burning Grass, Premee Mohamed
Sonnets to Orpheus, Rainer Maria Rilke

Evidently, this was jamais vu

Apr. 10th, 2025 03:39 pm
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Yesterday I accompanied MyGuy to his colonoscopy. We entered a small room with a surgical bed, vitals station, the now-ubiquitous bedside computer, and a parking space for me. After he donned the hospital gown, nursing staff connected him to the vitals station, and started a saline drip. They wheeled him off to the procedure while I waited in the cubicle. I distracted myself with some Sherlock fanfic.

Suddenly the door was opening. An unfamiliar nurse was wheeling a complete stranger backwards into the space—I asked should I remove my husband’s clothing if someone else was using the room. She said, “Of course not, he will be putting them back on in a few minutes.” Seeing my puzzled face, she said, “Don’t you recognize him?” I was still stunned—who were these people? She swung the bed around so I could see his eyes. The estranged swirl of jamais vu vanished, and I saw his lovely face, his smile enhanced by recent doses of fentanyl and midazolam.

All went well, and 45 minutes later we were in the taxi back home. I’d read of the vu triplets—presque, déjà, jamais—in Catch-22 when I was a teenager, but this was my first experience of jamais vu.

Very disconcerting—have you experienced this?

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